Tannie Coward was in her early 50s when she started gaining weight for no apparent reason.
The court-service officer in Houston enjoyed an active lifestyle, with three kids, a side hustle running a wedding-planning company, and frequent rounds of golf. Over the course of a few years, her petite frame tacked on nearly 40 pounds, and her acid reflux flared up.
Coward told Insider she and doctors thought it was an unfortunate reality of aging, but her symptoms escalated. She became increasingly out of breath on the golf course and had to prop herself up on more and more pillows in bed to prevent the reflux.
Then, one night, she woke up gasping for air.
“I was literally choking in my sleep,” she said.
She called her then-fiancé, now husband, to take her to urgent care. After one look at her X-rays, clinicians told the couple to go to a major hospital – stat.
There, she was diagnosed with congestive heart failure, when fluid buildup around the heart strains its ability to pump properly. Coward said she was told her heart was functioning at only 12%.
“It was like someone punched me in the gut,” she said.
While her dad died of a heart attack at 45, he smoked and drank. Her brother has congestive
but he’s overweight, she said.
“I’m the person who walks 2 to 3 miles a day and plays one to two rounds of golf a week. Are you sure you’re talking about me?” she said she thought.
Now, Coward is advocating through the Hear Your Heart initiative, which hopes to empower women with heart failure, especially Black and Latina women, to prioritize their heart health.
“The diagnosis is not the end of your story,” she said. “For me, it’s a wake-up call. It means I need to get moving and take better care of my body. I want to encourage other women to go out and get that support.”
‘I do not want any other woman to go through this by herself’
Coward said she and doctors did not worry too much about her weight gain before the diagnosis since it was evenly distributed on her body and made her about a size 12 – still smaller than the average American woman.
She even celebrated some aspects of her fuller figure.
“My legs are super, super skinny, but at the top of the diagnosis, I had nice, pretty fluffy legs,” she said. “I was so excited because I thought, ‘I look nice in this golf outfit.'”
Once doctors discovered the cause, they gave her water pills to drain nearly 40 pounds of fluid from her body.
“I literally sat on the toilet for two days,” she said.
With the fluid gone, her acid reflux subsided.
For her longer-term care, Coward was put on a medication regimen to support her heart, given an external defibrillator vest for a year in case of sudden cardiac arrest, and had a
implanted to control her heartbeat.
Because her condition put her at higher risk of complications from infectious diseases, Coward retired from her job, which required close contact with people who’d just left prison or jail. She shut down her wedding-planning company to further minimize stress.
“When I was first diagnosed, I was a basket case. I did not cry a little bit – I was boo-hoo crying,” Coward, now 60, said. “I was thinking, ‘This is my life?’ I was really depressed, but no one saw the
Now, advocating for women’s heart health gives her purpose.
“When I was diagnosed, I did not see support groups or anything for women who look like me: African American women,” she said. “I do not want any other woman to go through this by herself.”
Heart failure can be hard to diagnosis
“Heart failure” is a general term to describe the gradual decline of the heart’s ability to pump and circulate blood, according to Harvard Health. “Congestive heart failure” refers to the stage in which fluid buildup inhibits the heart’s job.
Heart failure is the leading cause of hospitalization, and a top cause of death, for women over 65. According to the Hear Your Heart campaign, which is run by the pharmaceutical companies Boehringer Ingelheim and Eli Lilly, clinicians are less likely to follow proper protocols when treating heart failure in women compared with men. Black and Latina heart-failure patients are especially vulnerable to subpar care.
Heart failure often occurs as a result of other conditions that weaken the heart, like coronary artery disease (or a buildup of fatty deposits in the arteries),
or a heart abnormality you’re born with.
The symptoms, like fatigue and shortness of breath, can be mild and progress slowly, making it easy to mistake for other conditions.
The condition is incurable but can be managed with medications, a low-sodium diet, and exercise. Good communication with a doctor you trust is critical.
“I was not advocating for myself at all,” Coward said of her pre-diagnosis self.
Now, she keeps track of her symptoms day-to-day and asks doctors to reserve five minutes at the end of each appointment for her to ask questions.
“They’re the experts in their field,” she tells other women, “but they’re not the experts in your body.”